Someone called me yesterday and asked the question, “Does Positive Changes work?”
If you don’t know, Positive Changes is a Hypnosis Center in Bellevue,Washington,
and while they do hypnosis for many things, I believe they specialize in weight loss.
I had to bite my tongue, because the caller’s question brought up a family story.
My younger brother has muscular dystrophy and uses a wheelchair. One day while we were watching TV, someone with a disability was playing the piano.
My friend’s brother asked my brother,
“What’s wrong with him?”
I could feel my brother prickle as he answered,
” What?”…………… “Do I look like an expert on afflictions?”
On the same note, while I am an expert on using hypnosis for weight loss, I am not in the position to know if Positive Changes would work for a stranger who calls me on the phone.
The answer is that to make quick and lasting change you need to get your subconscious mind on your side. There is no one way to do this.
Anyone who has repeated affirmations to no avail, or started a diet of any kind, only to quit in two days, or a week, knows that willpower is not always enough.
Katie Evans, with the Living Lite weight loss program, uses the analogy of
the mouse and the elephant. The mouse is the conscious mind, and makes the “plans for change”. The subconscious mind is the elephant. Elephants are not only big, they are extremely intelligent.
The subconscious mind will take “canned directions” if it has no reason not to, and the reason not to, may well seem irrational.
The subconscious mind is in business to keep you safe. And when you do not understand your own resistance, it may be following safety procedures that you have outgrown.
This is when you need a practitioner to work with you on your presenting set of circumstances as change can happen very quickly.
There are many tools available to create change: hypnosis, NLP, Thought Field Therapies like EFT, ESM, and EMDR.
Many people like to work with someone who has the flexibility to adjust the treatment to their particular set of circumstances. Contrary to what you have seen in the movies or a Road Runner cartoon, a hypnotist does not wave a watch and gain control of your mind.
I told the caller to do her research by making calls, and asking questions, and then to follow her instincts.
Feeling comfortable with your hypnotist is important.
Some people are going to feel more comfortable in a group, following a certain program, and other’s are more receptive to individualized sessions. Some like the combination of both.
I know hypnosis, NLP, EFT, and all work. I am not in the position to know which practitioner or program would work for you, but I am very happy to offer you a free twenty minute phone consultation to answer any of your questions. 206-941-1287
Please check out Breaking Through Resistance:
It is a fun and productive way to work in a group.
http://www.health-through-hypnosis.com/classes